A buddy of mine, Jerry, has been married for a decade, a huge accomplishment nowadays, especially with someone so young. All of his adult life has been spent with the same woman, Carla. Actually, most of us were jealous of what he had. Ironically, it seems like he was jealous of our bachelor status. While the swinger lifestyle does prove beneficial to some couples, it was a gross misadventure for Jerry and Carla.
‘first time swingers’ stories
For some couples, the idea of having sex with anyone other than your significant other seems unfathomable. But believe it or not, it can, and there are more couples interested in doing it than you may realize. Below, four women get real about what their own swinging experiences were really like. My husband knew that I was bi-curious when we met, so on the anniversary of our first date, we decided to explore and went to a swingers club. Not all experiences were percent pleasurable, so we made an effort to have those conversations and keep the lines of communication open.
If you would have told me a year ago that I would one day watch my husband get a blowjob from a stranger and not feel jealous, I would have laughed in your face. Though my addiction had been curbed since meeting my husband, thanks to a combination of efforts buoyed by his support, would a salacious vacation reopen the wound? Why not a swingers resort? Weeks later, we arrived in Cancun in the rain. A funny taxi driver drove us to the secluded Desire Pearl, where smiling staff members greeted us in the lobby with champagne and waivers.
Another clue was the large mural of two naked models in a pool doing what cannot be described as the butterfly stroke. In retrospect, the name of the resort itself, Temptation, should also have given me pause. The resort was upscale, modern, chic.